Over 40 and Exhausted by Endless Dieting and Frustration?
Discover How to Finally Shed the Menopause Belly, Gain Confidence, and Feel Like Yourself Again—Without giving up your favorite foods, your social life, or feeling like you are about to lose your damn mind in the process
Watch the video below to see the exact process we use to help thousands of women just like you achieve sustainable, life-changing results. Because let’s be real—you deserve a solution that actually works, so you can ditch the endless diet hamster wheel for good and never sign up for another frustrating weight loss program again.
Look, I wouldn’t blame you if you’ve ever asked yourself…"Why even bother trying to lose the weight if my body is just going to betray me again?"
I get it, you have done all the things—the diets, the workouts, the endless Googling of “how to lose weight fast”—but now you barely recognize the person in the mirror, you’re in the right place. Life has thrown you curveballs, menopause flipped the script, and it feels like your body’s working against you no matter how hard you try. Sound familiar? I see you, and I’m here for you. You're not asking for a miracle. You just want to feel good in your own skin again, to lose the extra pounds that snuck up on you, and to finally put on a pair of pants without a wrestling match. You’re looking to regain the confidence that got lost somewhere between hot flashes and “Wait, how did my waistline just disappear?"
Been There, Tried That - And Got Nowhere
I am willing to bet you tried every “magic” solution under the sun. Keto, fasting, no-carb, no-fun—you’ve done it all. You’ve sweated through punishing workouts, dragged yourself out of bed at 5 a.m., choked down kale smoothies, and watched everyone else seem to “get it” while you’re left feeling like the one broken cog in the machine. After all that, you’re probably left wondering, “Why do I even bother?”
Let’s Get Real—The Problem Isn’t You,
It’s the Game You’ve Been Sold
Look, I wouldn’t blame you if you’ve ever thought, “What’s the point in trying if my body’s just going to pull a Houdini on me?” The frustration, the exhaustion, the self-doubt—they’re not just in your head, and they’re not because you didn’t try hard enough. It’s because traditional plans don’t get you. They’re not built for the way your body works now.
Why Other Programs Make You Feel Like a Failure
If you’re feeling stuck, it’s not because of a lack of willpower. It’s because most programs out there still think you’re living in your 30-year-old body, and we both know it’s operating on a whole new playbook. Here’s what’s really going on with those “one-size-fits-all” programs:
Imagine a Life Without Constant Dieting and Frustration
Imagine a future where you wake up feeling energized, look in the mirror and recognize the woman looking back at you. With Team BecomingHER, this isn’t a dream; it’s your reality. These women were able to do just that
Here’s what’s waiting for you, if you decide
to join Team BecomingHER:
Get Your Confidence Back: Imagine looking in the mirror and actually liking what you see. No more hiding, no more shame—just pride in the strong, capable woman staring back at you.
Feel in Control Again: Take back control of your body and health, knowing you have a game plan that actually works, so you can stop feeling lost and start feeling empowered.
Experience True Food Freedom: Enjoy your favorite meals without the constant guilt or overthinking. Learn how to fuel your body in a way that feels good and fits your life.
End the Overwhelm: Ditch the confusion and endless research. Get a simple, clear approach designed for your body that makes everything feel manageable and less daunting.
Replace Self-Criticism with Self-Compassion: Stop beating yourself up for not being perfect. Learn how to appreciate and care for your body in a way that finally brings you peace.
Reconnect with Your Body: Understand what your body needs and why, so you can stop fighting against it and start working with it—building strength and resilience along the way.
Strengthen Your Connections: When you feel good about yourself, you show up as your best self—for your partner, your kids, your friends. No more hiding in the shadows.
Relieve the Anxiety: Say goodbye to the 3 a.m. panic attacks over your weight and health. Feel at ease knowing you’re making progress that lasts, without punishing yourself.
Reignite Your Joy: Get your energy back so you can fully live your life, whether it’s running around with your grandkids, going on adventures, or simply feeling alive again.
Find Unmatched Support: Join a community that actually gets you. No judgment, just real women who know your struggles and are there to lift you up every step of the way.
When you join Team BecomingHER, you’re not just signing up for a program—you’re becoming part of a powerhouse community ready to support you on your journey to reclaiming your body, confidence, and joy. Here’s the full VIP experience you get with us:
Personalized Weekly Check-Ins with Your 1:1 Coach
Your dedicated coach is all about you and your progress. Every week, expect a Loom video check-in where your coach will break down your wins, answer any burning questions, and fine-tune your plan. This weekly dose of motivation, advice, and accountability is designed to keep you focused, supported, and moving forward—because every little step counts!
24/7 Access to Your Dedicated Coach for Support
Let’s face it: life throws curveballs, and we don’t expect you to wait until your weekly check-in to get support. Got a question or need advice at any hour? Your coach is just a message away. While we ask for 24 hours to respond (hey, coaches need sleep too!), you’ll have unlimited access to reach out and get that mid-week motivation or guidance you need—whether it’s a question about meal prep, a quick pep talk, or clarifying a workout. We’re here for all the moments that make a difference.
A Coach Who Supports, Not Enables
Let’s face it: life throws curveballs, and we don’t expect you to wait until your weekly check-in to get support. Got a question or need advice at any hour? Your coach is just a message away. While we ask for 24 hours to respond (hey, coaches need sleep too!), you’ll have unlimited access to reach out and get that mid-week motivation or guidance you need—whether it’s a question about meal prep, a quick pep talk, or clarifying a workout. We’re here for all the moments that make a difference.
Your Wellness Hub
With our app, you’ll have a tailored experience designed just for you. It includes:
Personalized nutrition and training plans,
Direct access to our private community forum, with support from Nicole and the team,
Resources to help you manage and thrive at every stage of your journey.
Meal ideas and Recipes
A built in tribe
It’s everything you need, all in one place, accessible anytime.
Monthly Zoom Calls with Our Team of Experts
We believe your transformation is holistic, so we’ve assembled a team of specialists to support every part of you. Each month, join our:
Mindset Specialist: for breakthroughs in confidence and motivation,
Licensed Therapist: to work through emotional barriers,
Makeup Artist: for guidance on enhancing your self-care
Meal Prep Specialist: to simplify healthy, delicious eating.
These sessions are a chance to learn, grow, and get inspired by the experts who know how to support every layer of becoming her.
Hormone Optimization Team
Balancing hormones can be complex, but we’ve simplified it with our dedicated Hormone Optimization Team.
Here’s how it works:
Skip the waiting room and get your lab requisition sent directly to you. You choose a nearby lab to get your blood work done.
Once results are in, you’ll meet on Zoom with our hormone specialist, who’ll review your results and create a plan tailored to your needs.
Any recommended hormone therapy is shipped to your door, ensuring a seamless, customized approach to balance and well-being.
You deserve a solution that respects your time and health.
Access to Nicole and the Entire Team
While your personal coach is your main support, Nicole and the entire team are behind you, too. Whatever challenge you’re facing, our team is here to offer additional insights, guidance, and encouragement to keep you moving forward.
Exclusive Private Community
BecomingHER isn’t just a program—it’s a family. In our private community, you’ll connect with other women walking similar paths, offering support, celebrating victories, and sharing struggles. You’re never alone in this journey; here, you’ll find real connections and lasting friendships.
1. Onboarding:
We kick things off with a comprehensive onboarding process designed to set you up for success:
Welcome and Support: You’ll join our exclusive community, and our hormone experts will connect with you to review your blood work and set the stage for your hormone optimization.
Getting to Know You: We’ll dive deep into your goals, who you are now, and who you want to become in the next six months.
Mastering the Basics: Learn how to track your food accurately, understand what to expect from your training, and discover how to make the most of your coaching experience.
2. Foundations Phase: Owning Your Starting Point
This phase is all about getting real with where you are, so we can build a clear and customized roadmap to where you want to be. We set realistic expectations, track your progress, and ensure you’re present and committed to the process.
3. Revamp Phase: Mastering the Basics and Building Capacity
Here, we focus on body recomposition—shedding fat and adding muscle—while optimizing your metabolism. This is where the magic of real, sustainable change happens
4. Fat Loss Phase: Strategic and Effective Fat Loss
We shift gears into fat loss, but with a difference: we aim to preserve your hard-earned muscle and keep your metabolism humming.
5. Lifestyle Integration: The Diet After the Diet
This phase is about maintaining your results while living your best life. We guide you through a reverse diet to increase your calorie intake while keeping your body lean and your metabolism happy.
Real Women, Real Transformations
Listen to stories from other women who have felt what you’re feeling—and finally found freedom with Team BecomingHER.
If There Is a Fad Diet Out There, Crystal Has Tried It.
After years of trying every fad diet, Crystal finally found something sustainable. She’s lost countless inches, has more energy than ever, and fits into clothes she hasn’t worn in years. This isn’t just weight loss—it’s confidence, energy, and her life back
Melinda Breaks Free
From Dieting Fear
Melinda came to Nicole scared of carbs and stuck in the cycle of low-calorie, high-cardio routines. A year later, she’s down 30 pounds, eating 2,000+ calories, and enjoying pizza, burgers, and more—all while feeling her absolute best. Her workouts are now a lifestyle, not a chore.
Bukett’s Next Level Glow Up
Watching Bukett thrive has been incredible. She’s poured into becoming her best self, and it shows in her confidence and energy—not just for herself but also for her business. Balancing a fast-paced career and home life isn’t easy, but with Team Becoming Her, she’s proving that you
can make yourself a priority and have it all.
Jenny's Vacation-
Friendly Transformation
Jenny achieved incredible results in just 3 months—eating carbs daily, taking two vacations, and enjoying nights out. With a plan customized to her lifestyle, she’s not just seeing results; she’s learning how to sustain them. And she’s only getting started!
Kelly’s Food Freedom Journey
Kelly wakes up happy, free from bloating and inflammation. With nourishing whole foods and room for her favorite snacks, she finally feels amazing—inside and out. Even her hair is thriving again!
Ashley Finally Escapes
the Optavia Trap
After years of feeling lost and defeated, Ashley realized she didn’t lack discipline—she lacked direction. Now, with a plan that fits her lifestyle, supports her metabolism, and balances her hormones, she’s thriving and will never look back.
Meet The Owner
Hey there, I’m Nicole—your no-BS guide to finally getting off the menopause roller coaster and into the life (and body) you deserve. I’m a coach, a hormone health nerd, and your ultimate hype woman when you feel like throwing in the towel.
Here’s the scoop: I know what it’s like to try all the diets, crush yourself with workouts, and still feel like your body has betrayed you. Been there, done that, got the oversized t-shirt. But instead of resigning myself to a life of frustration, I got down to the real answers. Turns out, it's not about eating air for dinner or doing workouts that make you cry—it's about working with your body, not against it. Shocking, right?
Fast forward to today: I’ve cracked the code on making weight loss work for women over 40, and I’m obsessed with helping you do the same. I started Team BecomingHER because no one should feel defeated by their own body, and honestly? You deserve to feel freaking amazing without living off kale or working out like you’re auditioning for a fitness infomercial.
When I’m not plotting world domination through hormone optimization (okay, kidding... sort of), I’m usually chugging iced coffee, trying not to burn dinner, and reminding women like you that yes, you can eat carbs and still rock a bikini. So, if you’re ready to laugh, learn, and level up your life, welcome aboardHeadline
WHY OUR PROGRAM WORKS
We understand—you might be skeptical. Maybe you've tried other programs that promised results but left you feeling the same. So, why is Team BecomingHER different?
Because we don't just offer temporary fixes or one-size-fits-all solutions. We provide a comprehensive, science-backed blueprint that tackles the real issues holding you back. Here's how:
We Address Root Causes, Not Just Symptoms
Unlike programs that merely put a Band-Aid on menopause symptoms or hormonal imbalances, we dive deep into what's truly affecting your well-being. We focus on the underlying factors that contribute to weight gain, low energy, and mood changes, ensuring you achieve lasting transformation—not just short-term relief.
Hormone Optimization with Our In-House Experts
Concerned about hormone therapy? Our specialized team takes the guesswork and anxiety out of the equation.
We offer:
Safe, Personalized Plans: Our experts assess your unique hormonal profile to create a plan tailored just for you.
Convenience and Support: No more long waits at doctor's offices. We handle everything from lab work coordination to virtual consultations.
Holistic Approach: By balancing your hormones, we help your body function optimally, boosting your energy and mood naturally.
Customized Nutrition and Training Plans
Worried this program won't suit your needs? We design:
Nutrition Plans Built for You Now: Forget outdated diets. We consider your current lifestyle, preferences, and body's needs.
Training That Fits Your Life: Whether you're new to fitness or a seasoned pro, we create workouts that are effective and enjoyable.
A Support System Like No Other
Afraid of going it alone or feeling unsupported? With us, you get:
Coaches Who Truly Understand: Our coaches are empathetic professionals who are dedicated to your journey—not just your results.
An Empowering Community: Join a sisterhood of women who share your struggles and triumphs. You're never alone here.
Accountability Without Dependency: We empower you with the tools and knowledge to take charge of your health, fostering independence rather than reliance.
We're Your Forever Solution, Not a Quick Fix
Think we're just another quick-fix program? Think again.
Long-Term Results: We're committed to helping you achieve sustainable health and wellness that lasts a lifetime.
Education and Empowerment: We equip you with the understanding and skills to continue your journey confidently on your own.
No Pigeonholing: Our goal is to set you free—not keep you tethered to us indefinitely.
WHO WE ARE FOR & WHO WE ARE NOT FOR
Who We Are For:
You’re over 40, fed up with feeling like nothing works, and finally ready to take back control of your body.
You’re willing to put in the work—not the punishing, soul-sucking kind, but the smart, sustainable work that actually makes a difference.
You’re ready to track your nutrition, understand the why behind it, and stick to a plan designed specifically for your menopausal needs.
You want real, science-backed solutions that don’t involve starvation or endless cardio, and you’re here for the long haul, not a quick fix.
You crave accountability and are open to feedback, even when it’s a bit of tough love, because you know it’s what you need to get where you want to be.
You’re tired of feeling like you’re going it alone and want to join a community of badass women who’ve got your back.
Who We Are NOT For:
You’re looking for a magic pill, a crash diet, or something that promises 10 pounds lost in 10 days (spoiler: we don’t do that here).
You’re not willing to track your food, pay attention to your habits, or put in the effort to understand your body’s needs.
You think you can out-exercise a bad diet or are still clinging to the hope that misery equals success (we’ll politely disagree).
You aren’t ready to take responsibility for your own results and would rather blame external factors than make a change.
You want a “set it and forget it” plan that doesn’t require any interaction, commitment, or effort from you.
You’re not willing to invest time and energy into learning what truly works for your unique, ever-changing body.
THE OLD WAY
You've been there... jumping from one restrictive diet to the next, starving yourself on 1,200 calories a day obsessively counting points, or sweating it out with punishing workouts that leave you feeling depleted.
And sure, maybe you saw some results, but they never lasted. Your metabolism took a beating, your energy tanked, and your mood? Let's just say it wasn't pretty.
Worst of all, the weight always came back, leaving your feeling defeated and stuck in the same exhausting cycle.
THE NEW WAY
Enter Team BecomingHER. We've thrown out the old rulebook and designed a smarter, more sustainable way to transform your body and life.
Instead of extreme restrictions, we teach you how to fuel your body properly for fat loss and muscle preservation. Instead of endless cardio, we focus on strength and metabolic health.
And instead of quick-fix results, we give you a customized blueprint that works with your hormones, not against them.
Our method empowers you with the tools, knowledge, and support to finally break free from the diet hamster wheel and keep the results you've worked so hard for.
FAQ's
Frequently Asked Questions:
What makes Team BecomingHER different from all the other programs I’ve tried?
We don’t believe in one-size-fits-all solutions, crash diets, or extreme measures. Our program is fully customized to your needs, taking into account the hormonal and metabolic changes of menopause. We focus on sustainable, science-backed strategies that get you lasting results—and support you every step of the way.
Do I have to give up my favorite foods?
Nope! We teach you how to incorporate the foods you love while still making progress. It’s all about balance, not deprivation. You’ll learn how to enjoy your meals guilt-free and without sabotaging your results.
How is this program tailored for women going through menopause?
We get that menopause changes everything—from your metabolism to your energy levels. Our program focuses on hormone optimization, personalized nutrition, and strength-based training to support your body during this transition, not work against it.
How much time will I need to dedicate each week?
We’ve designed our approach to fit into a busy lifestyle. Most of our training sessions can be completed in 45-60 minutes, a few days a week. And with flexible dieting plans and easy-to-implement habits, you won’t have to upend your life to see results.
Will I have to track my food intake?
Yes, but don’t worry—it’s a short-term investment with a long-term payoff. We track now so we don’t have to track forever. Understanding your nutrition and habits is key to making the right adjustments for your body, and we’ll guide you through it in a way that’s efficient and manageable. Our ultimate goal is to get you to intuitive eating, but that freedom is earned through building the right habits—not just handed over.
What if I have a history of yo-yo dieting and feel like nothing works for me anymore?
That’s exactly why we created Team BecomingHER. We know how frustrating it is to feel like your body is working against you. Our approach is specifically designed to break the cycle of yo-yo dieting, heal your metabolism, and give you lasting, sustainable results.
What kind of support will I get from your team?
You’ll have unparalleled support from our entire team, including weekly check-ins with your personal coach, access to our in-house hormone experts, and a community of women who are right there with you. We’re here to answer your questions, provide accountability, and cheer you on every step of the way.
Can I do this program if I have injuries or limitations?
Absolutely. We create personalized workout plans that cater to your current fitness level and any limitations you have. Our goal is to help you get stronger and healthier, without putting you at risk for injury.
I’m nervous about failing again. How do I know this will work for me?
We get it—trusting another program can feel daunting, especially after trying so many that didn’t work. But we’ve helped thousands of women just like you see real, sustainable change. With our tailored approach and strong support system, we’re confident you’ll experience results that last.
What if I need more help managing my hormones or mental well-being?
We’ve got you covered. Our team includes hormone optimization experts, nutritionists, and mindset specialists to support you holistically. We address the root causes of your struggles, from hormone imbalances to stress and emotional eating, so you can finally feel your BETTER.